Don't let it be a silent night - give the gift of conversation

hello • 6 December 2020

R U OK? is calling on Australians to give the ‘Gift of Conversation’ this holiday season. 

Voiced by Sam Neill, the campaign urges all Australians to pause and reflect if there’s someone in their world who might be feeling disconnected this holiday season.

“This has been a year unlike any other and the holiday season for many Australians won’t be quite the same as in years past,” said R U OK? CEO Katherine Newton. 

“As well as the social, emotional and financial pressures of the last twelve months, many are facing the prospect of disconnection from friends and loved ones this Christmas.”

The R U OK? adaptation of “A Visit from St. Nicholas” by Clement Clarke Moore has been voiced by actor Sam Neill who this year entertained, reassured and encouraged his social media followers and fans to open up about how they are feeling.

“I think this message from R U OK? is one that really needs to be heard. It has been a hard year, and I feel sure we now all have a better understanding of how loneliness and disconnection can impact on our lives,” said Neill. 

“This Christmas, this Holiday Season, no matter what our circumstances, we can ALL make a difference - by giving the gift of conversation to people we know. Particularly those who might be struggling, and so many do at this time of the year. To help people know when and how to give the ‘Gift of Conversation’, free downloadable resources are available on the R U OK? website including a personalised e-greeting card and conversation tips.

“Being surrounded by festivities and talk of family holidays and gatherings can make this a particularly isolating time for those who have lost a loved one, are not feeling connected or who can’t be with family and friends through distance or circumstance,” said Ms Newton.

“Don’t let it be a silent night for those in your world. Reach out to them, give them the gift of a meaningful conversation, show them you care and lend support where it’s needed.”

The ‘Gift of Conversation’ also underpins the R U OK? “Your Natter Matters” campaign that aims to empower senior Australians over 65 to support each other through life’s ups and downs. The campaign is backed by the Stockland CARE Foundation and features printed and digital resources that focus on how to give the Gift of Conversation.

‘Don’t let it be a silent night: Give the ‘Gift of Conversation’ Learn how at www.ruok.org.au

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