LEAVE A GIFT IN YOUR WILL

R U OK? delivers free resources that increase the willingness and confidence of all Australians to recognise the signs someone is struggling, start a genuine conversation and lend appropriate support.

R U OK? also tailors these resources to meet the needs of targeted population groups and settings.

Lisa's Journey of Hope and Healing



In 1988, my mum took her life.

Back then we knew very little about suicide or mental health issues, no one spoke about it. I had an inkling that something wasn’t OK, but I was too scared to ask her because I didn’t know what to say next. 

There are no words to describe the pain of losing your mum. 

I have now made it my mission to bring community together and provide opportunities for connection in the hope that it may lead to life-changing conversations. I live in a small town on the mid north coast of NSW. Every Friday morning a group of us head to the beach dressed in bright colours and catch up. We’ve famously named ourselves the Fluro Friday Group. It’s especially had a positive impact on older people who live alone or are retired. It’s a great way for them to meet new people and form connections . 

Building that support network has taken time but it’s well worth the effort. I like to think the small, regular events we hold are a constant reminder to everyone that they’re not alone. 

Percentage Gift

You simply state in your Will what percentage of your estate you would like to be left to R U OK? Some people leave just a few percent, some people leave more.

Suggested wording

I give free of all duties or taxes the [whole of my estate] OR [(insert number) per cent of my estate] to RUOK? LIMITED, ABN 25 138 676 829 of 1 Shelley Street, Sydney, New South Wales for its general purposes. The receipt of an authorised officer of RUOK? LIMITED shall constitute a full and sufficient discharge of my executor’s duties and my executor will not be bound to see to the application of the gift. 

Residual Gift

After your loved ones have been taken care of, and all costs have been dealt with, you can leave a portion of your estate or the balance remaining to R U OK?

Suggested wording

I give free of all duties or taxes the [residue of my estate] OR [(insert number) per cent of the residue of my estate] to RUOK? LIMITED, ABN 25 138 676 829 of 1 Shelley Street, Sydney, New South Wales for its general purposes. The receipt of an authorised officer of RUOK? LIMITED shall constitute a full and sufficient discharge of my executor’s duties and my executor will not be bound to see to the application of the gift. 

Lump Sum

You simply declare the exact amount of money or details of a specific asset - such as shares or real estate - you would like to leave R U OK? in your Will. 

Suggested wording

I give free of all duties or taxes the [sum of $ (insert value of your gift)] OR [details of the specific asset - such as shares or real estate] to RUOK?, LIMITED ABN 25 138 676 829 of 1 Shelley Street, Sydney, New South Wales for its general purposes. The receipt of an authorised officer of RUOK? LIMITED shall constitute a full and sufficient discharge of my executor’s duties and my executor will not be bound to see to the application of the gift. 

Does the size of my bequest make a difference?

All gifts made to R U OK? help us to create a world free of suicide- your gift, no matter the size, will help us to this end. 

Should I discuss this with my family, friends, or solicitor?  

Including a charity in your Will and sharing your decision with your loved ones is the best way to ensure your wishes are carried out when you pass away. We advise you to visit a solicitor to have your Will professionally written. Alternatively, for straightforward estates, you may wish to consider the affordable online will-writing services, if they suit your needs. After consulting with your family and loved ones, always seek professional advice if you are unsure or have questions. Our partners that can assist you with the preparation of your Will can be found here

Can I still make sure my loved ones are taken care of? 

Absolutely. It’s one of the reasons we recommend you make a residual gift to R U OK? as such gifts are only drawn from your estate once your loved ones and expenses have been taken care of. 

Do I need to inform R U OK? of my intention? 

Whilst there is no requirement for you to do so, we always encourage those who do include R U OK? In their planning to make contact with us, so that we can ensure your intentions have the best chance of being met. We would hold your contact in confidence as your situation dictates. 

Do I have to join the Yellow hearts Bequest Society?  

Many members of the community that have included R U OK? In their will enjoy being members of the Yellow Hearts Bequest Society, where they received regular updates on our work, and invitations to our key events- however, there is no requirement to join, we are simply grateful for your gift. 

I have a limited budget or can’t really afford a will: what can I do? 

R U OK? has partnered with reputable firms SafeWill and Gathered Here, both of which provide wither a free or affordable service. For more information please contact us by email at R U OK? Gifts in Wills or by filling out this online form.