Lismore locals reachout with the Conversation Convoy

hello • 3 September 2018








The welcomed rain did not deter locals from joining the Conversation Convoy event this morning and having serious conversations about help seeking pathways.


Uncle Roy Gordon welcomed the Convoy to country and reminded us to ask R U OK? of ourselves before we can help others, and that “now is the time for a big shift in our understanding of wellbeing, place and acknowledgement.”


Austin Curtin represented Thomas George MP and thanked the Convoy for efforts to reach regional and rural communities, focusing on "Step 2 - listening is key to these conversations. It's vital and critical in business, politics and sporting clubs. Without it, it's not a genuine conversation”, he said.


Campaign Director Katherine Newton took a moment to welcome Ben Roche, Vice-Captain of Australia’s Paralympic soccer team ‘Pararoos’, who spoke of being a father, being vulnerable through challenging times and inviting the support of his family and friends.


Rose Hogan from Standby After Suicide detailed the current landscape in Lismore and acknowledged that we may not always have the answers when we are trying to help someone. “If you don’t know the answer, that’s ok - ask someone. Let the person know that you’re going to help them find the answer and call one of the many services who can lead you to assistance. Being kind, being there, and listening is just as important.”


R U OK? Ambassador Tullara Connors performed to the gathered crowd, enjoying the intimate setting for an original set. Tullara spoke of her own family loss and that it was a chance encounter with a close friend that allowed her to open up and share her grief. Tullara also pointed to being a member of the LGBTQI community and how we can all be open and supportive to those in our world. Tullara will continue with the Convo Convoy to Grafton.


Special thanks to the Lions Club for the free BBQ, and to headspace, New Access and RAMPH for joining the day.


The Conversation Convoy continues its journey with next stop: Grafton (NSW).
Nazik, in a yellow t shirt, at an R U OK? event.

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