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Defend Your Mental Health
R U OK? x Defence Australia
R U OK? is proud to collaborate with Defence Australia on a project developed to encourage mental wellbeing and peer support for Defence personnel and their families.
All resources are free and available for download.
ABOUT
'Defend Your Mental Health' is a campaign which encourages higher levels of peer and social support for Defence personnel across Australia.
Defence service asks a lot of people. It shapes how you work, how you think, and how you connect with the people around you. Deployments, relocations, out of hours duties, operational tempo, injury and transition - these are experiences that most Australians will never face, and they carry real weight for members, veterans and their families.
But Defence also builds something few other workforces can: genuine community. A sense of community and connection is one of the most powerful protective factors for mental health and wellbeing.
We need to break down the stigma that keep some people suffering in silence and make it clear: you do not have to walk that road alone. Sometimes the most important thing you can do is simply ask, R U OK? Not like a passing ship in the night - but stopping to ask like someone who genuinely wants to know the answer. Regular, honest conversations can make a real difference.
Our resources feature real stories from those who have served and provide practical tools to help you have a genuine R U OK? conversation with someone you're concerned about
CONVERSATION CONVOY
In August 2026, R U OK? and Defence brought the Conversation Convoy to bases across New South Wales, the Australian Capital Territory and Victoria.
Hundreds of conversation were held as R U OK? representatives and LEAF members visited 14 bases, as part of the 'Defend Your Mental Health' campaign. Conversations which can help reduce stigma around mental health, normalising help-seeking and help-giving, and building a culture where asking R U OK? is part of everyday life.
The Convoy has now concluded, but resources to support the mental health of Defence and DMFS are available on this webpage.
DEFENCE VOICES
As part of this Campaign, several members of Defence's
Lived Experience Advisory Forum (LEAF) have generously shared their personal stories of experience with mental health challenges, and subsequently, the power of asking 'are you OK?'.
To the left, you'll find a video showcasing the stories of several LEAF members. Below you'll find links to videos and long-form articles sharing their individual stories, and posters to share their advice and encouragement about the power of an R U OK? Conversation.
Ian's Story
Ian shares about his personal experience with mental health challenges, and how these have shaped his regular and proactive efforts to check-in with peers.
Maddy's Story
After receiving life-changing care and support from Defence leaders, Maddy now passionately advocates for the power of open and honest conversations.
Emma's Story
Emma tells her story of the importance of intentionally building connection, and the power of learning to notice the signs that someone is struggling.
Mark's Story
Mark shares about a special moment of vulnerability with his daughter. He emphasises the importance of making time to ask 'are you OK?', genuinely listening to the response, and offering practical support and care.
POSTERS
READ THEIR STORIES
**The stories above may be blocked by a firewall on Defence-owned devices. If you cannot access the links above, you can download their stories in PDF format via the buttons below.
A CONVERSATION COULD CHANGE A LIFE
Got a feeling that someone you know or care about isn’t behaving as they normally would? Perhaps they seem out of sorts? More agitated or withdrawn? Or they’re just not themselves. Trust that gut instinct and act on it. Learn more about the signs and when it's time to ask R U OK? here.
By starting a conversation and commenting on the changes you’ve noticed, you could help that family member, friend or colleague open up. If they say they are not OK, you can follow our conversation steps to show them they’re supported and help them find strategies to better manage the load. If they are OK, that person will know you’re someone who cares enough to ask.
SERVICES AND SUPPORTS
If you're worried about someone and feel they need professional support, encourage them to reach out to one of the services below or speak to a trusted health professional. If there is an immediate risk of harm, call
Triple Zero (000).
- Defence All-hours Support Line (ASL) - 1800 628 036
- Defence Member and Family Helpline - 1800 624 608
- Defence Chaplaincy Support - 1300 333 362
- Employee Assistance Program - 1300 687 327
- Reserve Assistance Program (RAP) - 1300 687 327
- Before Blue – 03 9810 6100
- 1800 IMSICK- 1800 467 425
- ADF Mental Health Services accessed through Garrison Health centres
- Sexual Misconduct Prevention and Response Office (SeMPRO)- 1800 SEMPRO (1800 736 776)
- Open Arms – Veterans & Families Counselling - 1800 011 046
- Lifeline – 13 11 14
- BeyondBlue – 1300 224 636
- SuicideCall Back Service – 1300 659 467
- National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline – 1800 250 015





















